Imagine waking up in the dead of night, only to hear strange noises downstairs. You realize someone’s rifling through your stuff. It’s a terrifying scenario – one that can scramble your thoughts into a chaotic mess.
A home invasion is one of the most horrifying experiences you can experience in your own home, the place you likely consider to be a safe haven. And talking to people, we realized a lot of folks don’t know what to do in case it happens to them. Do they confront the intruders? Do they call the cops? Do they run away? Do they scream to alert their neighbors?
Don’t wait until you’re in the moment to try to figure out what to do. Make a plan now. Know exactly how you’ll handle things if it should happen to you. That will allow you to do what needs to be done, even when you aren’t thinking straight, and that could make all the difference in surviving a home invasion.
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What to Do
It’s scary to imagine what it might be like to have someone break into your house while you’re there. As a result, most people never prepare for such an event. As difficult as it can be, though, it’s valuable to take some time — maybe only a few minutes — to work through what you’ll do if you discover someone is in your home.
- Remain calm. First and foremost, remain calm. We know, this is easier said than done, right? We’re not suggesting that you relax into the moment or that you try to be at peace with what’s happening. That’s impossible. You’re going to be scared; you’re going to be upset. You don’t want to let those feelings overwhelm you, though. Calm, in this sense, means reminding yourself that you have a plan and then following the steps of that plan.
- Stay still. Remain where you are, quiet, and still. The vast majority of home invaders are burglars who might think you’re not home. So if they don’t find out you’re there, there’s every chance that they’ll take what they’re after and simply leave. Alerting them to your presence might only cause the situation to escalate. Of course, there are exceptions. If there are other people with you in the house – let’s say your children or a roommate – it makes sense to go to them and lock yourselves in one room. This raises another important point: Your family members should know your game plan as well.
- Alert the police. The next thing to do is to call the police, but once again, you have to do this as quietly as possible. Your goal should be to get the cops to your house before the invaders find you. The faster you can get them on the scene, the better. Going back to our first tip, you have to remain calm so you can relay all relevant information. Make sure to tell the police where you’re hiding, and if possible, let them know where in your house the intruders might be.
- Evaluate the situation. Remaining still and in place may be the best option, but you’ll want to evaluate the situation as it unfolds. If you feel the person in your house is there to harm you physically, you should look for a way out of the house or, at a minimum, find a room where you can lock yourself in. Again, in some situations, you’ll have to wake other family members and alert them to the situation. It helps to have a safe word you can whisper to let them know what’s happening.
- Give invaders what they want. As a last resort, if the intruders find you, don’t resist and let them take what they want. The goal during any home invasion is to keep you and your family safe. No possession is worth your life.
FYI: A safe word doesn’t have to involve complicated codes. You’re not trying to fool the home invaders. Something as simple as “trouble” or “burglar” can do the job.
Some Important Don’ts
We’ve all watched entirely too many movies. In the movies, the hero’s job is to outsmart the villain, confront them, and defeat them. Life isn’t a movie. So, as part of your plan, here are some important things not to do if you find someone in your home.
- Don’t confront them. There’s a school of thought that you should yell out if you hear someone burgling your home. This advice is based on the theory that letting a burglar know you’re home and aware of them will frighten them into leaving. That may work in some situations. Here’s what you can be sure it will do, though: upset any home invader. Their adrenaline is likely running almost as high as yours, and upsetting them will raise their stress levels even higher. Under those conditions, you cannot be sure what they’ll do. Certainly, don’t deliberately put yourself in physical proximity to them or try to threaten them.
- Don’t try to overpower them. Likewise, don’t try to physically overpower a home invader. You don’t know what weapons they might have on them, what training level they might have, or what they intend to do. You can be sure that any type of threat will almost certainly cause the situation to escalate.
- Don’t try to handle the situation on your own: In general, keep in mind that you’re a homeowner, not a member of a special ops team. The police are trained to handle break-ins. Get them involved immediately, and you stand a much better chance of surviving the event.
Be Proactive
The most important tip for surviving a home invasion? Do everything you can to prevent it in the first place. How do you do that? You’ll find dozens of tips on the security.org site, everything from reinforcing door locks to making sure you take your trash out regularly.
The single best thing you can do though, is to invest in a top-tier home security system, particularly one that is professionally monitored. With professional monitoring, police will be on their way even if you don’t call 911. The monitoring center will alert them on your behalf.
Additionally, a security system can serve as a deterrent, especially if you have security cameras. Most home invaders are extremely reluctant to target a house with a security system since the system itself raises the likelihood that they’ll be caught.
The Last Word
We know: No one wants to think about the possibility of someone breaking into their home. And it’s not our intention to scare you or make you unduly worried about worst-case scenarios.
Unfortunately, though, home invasions do happen. It doesn’t really matter who you are or where you live. We’re all vulnerable. A little preparation, though, can ensure that if the worst should happen, you’ll be ready for it. Once you have a plan you feel confident about, then you can worry less and enjoy your life more.